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最近真的累了，很多事情因为担心达不到自己的要求而放弃，心情就是如此反反复复，不知不觉感觉到心累了。

明明很想你来，可是却怕你会闷坏，所以迟迟无法给你答复。可能我是性格孤僻的人吧，喜欢待在家的感觉，也可能是因为工作了一整天回来，已经没有精力再出去了，享受在家的感觉。或许会说我这个人不浪漫，的确，我是一个不浪漫的人，虽然很努力的去改，可是就是改不到。很多女生喜欢惊喜，可是我却很难给到，也许是自我要求太高了吧。

就要迎接新的开始，希望可以顺顺利利。

平安夜前夕

很奇怪吧，为什么不是圣诞节前夕。哈哈，其实没什么，就今天是平安夜的前两天。
宁静的夜晚，徐徐微风不断迎面而来，仿佛想把我那虚假的面具吹掉。整个人不知不觉地开始回想自己的事情。
八月，对我来说是个大日子，因为我终于被UM录取为research assistant。心里兴奋的心情压抑不住，恨不得就越赶快到来。
九月，刚开工不到几天，后悔了。这里并没有想象中那么好，位子不够，bench不够，仪器不够，一个小小的pantry，一张桌子竟然是五个人的办公室。也许是还不习惯吧，忍忍看会不会改善。
十月，忍无可忍了。情况每况愈下，lab又来了新人，现在一个星期有两三天是在办公室上网到放工，想做东西却没有位子做。终于鼓起勇气提交了辞职信，提交了过后我好像松了一口气。接下来的日子就把给我的东西做到美美然后交回给senior。另外，也开始找工作了。
十一月，没有任何消息。心里却安慰自己说就当作休息一下吧。可是每当看到朋友工作时，心里都会低落，会埋怨自己为什么还是游手好闲。想找part time，家人却一直念。这个月比较没有压力就是去女友家陪伴她，我可以感觉到她一直鼓励我，给我正能量。所以每当在她家的期间，我会很有斗志，可是一回家后，斗志被家人的冷言冷语磨灭了。
十二月，还是没有消息。心里开始慌了，想逃避这一切。刚巧女友的空，便去她家一个星期。晚上睡觉时连她都知道我压力大，因为一直磨牙。有一次我还崩溃到哭了出来。我真的慌了。心里想，我已经不小了，要开始赚钱了，要不然以后怎样养家呀，怎样给幸福家庭。以前还在求学时，心里的计划是多么的完美，现在却被残酷的现实给慢慢吞噬。我觉得我就是缺乏那份勇气，每当要做事情是，心里都会往坏的方面想，结果放弃了。也许是因为以前做任何事在家人眼中都是错的，自信心变这样被削弱。现在很怕亲戚一直问我有什么打算，我真的不懂我该如何打算。
除此之外，发现到另一个问题。自从五月毕业，我和家人之间好像有隔阂，他们说的话题我完全接不进去。只有他们说，我在听，要不然我就自己回房间。
现在2012快要结束了，快要迎接新的一年了，可是我却没有勇气面对新的到来。我不奢望别人来帮忙因为自己的路要自己走，我只想在这里抒发出来。

Myself

Today did some personality test and found out got one test is showing the real me by showing a very accurate result. The result as followed:

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:

You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education

Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.
The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

After read this, I just feels like understanding myself better.

The end of the world

As getting near the "so called" 2012 Armageddon. A lot of social website getting more and more topic regarding to it. For me, I will just take it as a normal day. There is also a joke but true regarding this 2012. If people believe that 21.12.2012 11.11am GMT is the end of the world and used all his/her money before that. Even though there is no the end of the world but its the end of the world of that person. So, I believe that the end of the world is in your hand, if you want it to be happen, it will happen to you. Lastly, I will just post a countdown clock as somekind of counting down the arrival of that day.



The Official Countdown

久违的感觉

昨晚和知己skype了一会儿，虽然都是谈些琐碎的事情，可是心里确实有那种很回味的柑橘。对！就是当我们大家还在degree时的感觉，那种感觉回来了。可是时间就是过得那么快，谈不到一会儿大家都要下线了。

今天是我另一位知己的生日，本来想昨晚作弄她的，电话竟然没有回复。心里想：你是故意的还是睡着了。哈哈！结果今天早上六点十四分被电话信息铃声吵醒，你真的那么早起身。今天是你的生日，短短的手机通话向你祝福，我好像比你还要开心，可能是因为太久大家没有一起谈天了吧。

LL，大家每年来一次的聚会吧。:)